Is Hoarding Crowding Out Your Relationship?
Hoarding has huge costs: acquisition costs, storage costs, emotional costs, opportunity costs... it’s hard to understand, evokes little empathy, and stresses relationships and families to the breaking point.
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You love your partner, but the clutter has morphed into a wall between you. The endless struggle, the broken promises, the feeling that nothing can change until the “mess” is gone.
One Step Forward, Three Steps Back
We feel that any hope for our sanity or our relationship demands our partner change. But hoarding has deep emotional roots, making healing an elusive game. It's a roller coaster of immense time and resources for tiny wins and setbacks that mock our efforts.
What if we’ve being doing it all wrong?
Hoarding, like many behavioral addictions, feels like an existential threat. Precisely because it is! Its repair depends on things outside our control. The existential nature invites these common responses:
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Nag them to quit the behavior
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Quit caring or numb ourselves through our own misplaced behaviors
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Quit the relationship​
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All of these give a sense of control, but not really. We’re forced to compromise principles, relationships, and often bear costs far exceeding the cost of the underlying problem. The thrill of actually doing something gives us a bump in peace and happiness, but the costs outlast those feelings.
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This is the crux of all existential challenges.
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We’ll show you a better way than reacting to existential challenges without the false high of reacting to the threat; and without compromising your principles, relationships, and pocketbook.
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It starts with a simple mindset change that will change how you value everything.
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...and lead to small changes that actually put you in control.
...and produce real change in your life in spite of existential threats.
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Sound to good to be true? Our method is based on timeless concepts discovered 12,000 years ago and practiced by many since.
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These concepts triggered the Neolithic Revolution, our first, and most consequential revolution
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They make pioneering possible - enabling people to come together around new lands, new ideas, and new relationships.
They underpin our very survival, all growth and development, all peace. All happiness.
Powerfully simple
Sound too good to be true? Our solution is as old as the Bible and has been successfully applied against all kinds of challenges for thousands of years. You wouldn’t be here if your ancestors hadn’t figured it out and subsequent generations won’t thrive unless you do too.
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Need more? We’ll give you a solid preview into the simple, core principles we use through the story of TK and his grandfather who lived 10,000 years ago and helped bring about the Neolithic Revolution - our first and greatest.